To have or Not to Have

Well the title sounds slightly vague, atleast from 30,000 feet. Ok lets lower our feet to the ground level. It deals with the recent verdict of the Court on the comments of Kushboo the tamil actress on Premartial Sex. Well every individual has his own perception towards the things around him and has the freedom to express the same as long as it does not influence others badly. But when it comes to celebeties i guess they should be slightly careful on issues like these..be it Kushboo or Sania we treat them as icons and their views might be inspiritions to few. Well when it comes to pre-marital sex i have mixed feelings on that. Sometimes i feel its fine and sometimes its not. If people call that infidelity when woman is at the receibving end but when man does the same he is not pointed out. If we feel that Sex is something spiritual and a trust between 2 people it should not matter whether its pre-marriage or post marriage. As i told I have mixed feeling ...if people are having pre-marital sex with different people at different points of time that is something to be pondered over.

To be continued..